Some girls are pets. You can’t do anything about it.
Pets seek your attention, need lots of caring but deep in their souls they always stay wild.
(Source: kitty-en-classe, via blackshivers)
desiderioardente asked: I recently started following you and was reading a few posts. I greatly appreciate your devotion to integrity in regards to quoting a picture's source appropriately. You are not alone in this though we are a minority. Thanks for doing the right thing. Great blog. DA
Thank you for the support! It’s nice to see like minded people. By the way, your blog is really hot too :)
Cheers
By BDSM Tourguide via A Submissive’s Journey
Although each submissive has their own personality, quirks, flaws and merits, each will usually fit into one of the following seven categories of submissive behavior.
Please do note that these are only the most common types of submissives; others do exist, but to much lesser degrees.
I have un-followed a rude person. It’s a pity; she has excellent taste in images.
She has not been rude to me, but she has been rude to others whom I follow and some of whom follow me in turn. She has on several occasions simply cropped images of attribution, flat-out refused to give attribution…
This is far beyond annoying and disrespectful. All the amateur and professional artists who post their work so you can get off on it, because apparently this is what you only use art for, deserve at least respect. Very few photographers get paid for what they do,don’t they really deserve at least a tiny bit of respect and recognition?
montecervesa asked: I have such a collection. Possibly worse, actually.
Hahah, that’s just awesome. I might have asked you to marry me if I knew you a bit better.
Anonymous asked: Thank you so much for the kind attention answering my question about your self esteem. I´m glad you' ve find her. Or you just woke up from a bad dream ;) cause if you don´t realise how beatiful and special and unique you are, well that´s a sin!
That’s very sweet of you, especially now when I know who you are :) Everyone is special and beautiful, you must always remember that yourself.
I’m not a fixer. I don’t see a broken girl and fool myself into believing that with a little love and attention I can turn her into the picture of perfect. That kind of idealism is for fools and optimists, and I’m too smart for either. I can get you some of the way, but that kind of transformation has to come from within.
No, when I look at a girl I don’t see what she could become, but what’s already there. It’s mostly lost underneath the garbage of modern life, all the insecurities and anxieties that don’t really matter but have some how seeped through the walls like damp and are eating away at the foundation. It’s not the everyday that I see, nor the everyone. I see that spark, the gemstone in the centre of your being that glimmers with promise. It’s the kind that needs to be shined, and I just happen to have the right kind of cloth.
You don’t light up a dark room with your smile, but you do add colour to the desaturated gloom. The hint of something more interesting, hovering in my peripheral in a way that’s more curious than exciting. But curious turns into exciting, if you give it enough fuel, and I’ve got a mind to do exactly that. Just stand there, as you are, and let me get out my shammy. Let me start clearing away the gloom and the low light, and let me start revealing what needs to be revealed.
You’ve got a darker nature to you, and that’s what I want to let out into the light. I want you to stop covering it up, hiding it under layers of banal normality, and I want you to embrace yourself. I want to be the one that discovered you, and I want to be the one that showed that discovery to you. That’s what I’m here for. I’m the appraiser. I’m the jeweller. I’m the man who’s going to find the diamond in your rough.
(Source: con-leche)
inandoutagain asked: Hi Cyanide, I've found that the only way to get self esteem is to take it, steal it, demand it and use it like a brand new pair of sexy underwear that you know is there but not everyone else does.
That’s very well said :) Thanks.
